
Hello creative folks! The woman in the picture above is not just
another pretty face. She's a truly creative, funny, butt-kicking
lady who will help you sort out all your issues. Well, your career
issues anyway. The rest of them are up to you. And your therapist.
Michelle is a career coach who focuses on helping creative folks
get their businesses up and running, or booming even more
than they already are. She is the force behind, and just
completely is, the When I Grow Up Coach. I have been working with
Michelle for 6 weeks now, and I've gone from zero to finalizing a
logo, setting up the blog, and starting to work on things for the
future shop. She has also helped define what I want Manusmade to be
- an inspiration to everyone to basically get your hands a little
dirty and make some stuff with me! And explore creativity in
all its outlets!
I've mentioned before that I have a day job. It's a stressful
job for a number of reasons, but it's also fantastically rewarding.
Not only for the clients we work with, but also the people in our
office. I love helping people, and I love when they turn to me for
answers or advice at work. So it's not the specific job per se that
I am trying to escape. It's the 9-5 (or really, since I tend to
drag myself in some days 10-6), it's the dealing with frustrating
policies, it's the whole system.
I always dreamed of working in a creative field but for
various reason never followed that path when I was younger. It
seems difficult now, at 40, to walk away from a good job when I
have a mortgage, some debt, dreams of nice things and travel, and a
husband who wants a really really nice race car. Would it be
possible to walk away from it all and intern with a fashion
designer or go back to school for interior design? Maybe, but I'd
be happier in the long run balancing reality with my dreams. So
what's a creative girl to do? Become the boss I've always wanted to
be. Start a company I'd love to work for. Push myself to be the
leader, the creative force, and the mentor, but follow my own
rules. It's only been six weeks and I love it. I'm scared and
excited, and Michelle helps me make it easy by taking baby
steps.
I asked Michelle a few questions to get inside her head so I
could share with you how she does it too. She followed her dream of
setting up her own company: she got the experience she needed while
working a full time job, and when she felt the time was right
she left her day job and put out her shingle. It's been only
just under 5 months and she is already sought after, talked
about (in a good way!), and admired by all of her clients and fans.
And she does it all without giving up any of her wonderfully fun
personality!
Hey you! Let's get started: Part of the objective of
Manusmade is to inspire everyone out there who appreciates handmade
goods to start creating things for themselves. I love that sharing
one idea can build a community of people who inspire each other and
help each other out. What inspired you to inspire other people
through your work? What a great question! Well, as a certified
life coach and one who helps creative types through their career
transitions, it was super important for me to view myself as a
resource, whether by providing my own
content/thoughts/ideas/exercises or linking back through to the
great work that others are doing. I know my weekly blog column
Tough (Question) Tuesday started this way, and my Resources
page will continue to grow with this in mind. I also love the idea
of creating your own community, and everything I've put out there
has absolutely added to that! I have such a wealth of amazeballs
peeps and tweeps around me that are scattered throughout the globe.
I'm all about building relationships and making connections, so
thinking of myself as a resource is a wonderful way for me to
attract that. I know I sound hippy-dippy, but it's true!
Michelle, you come from an awesomely creative background of
musical theatre. You continue to be creative in a different way now
that you are an entrepreneur and a career coach. What have you
brought forward from that earlier period in your life, and what do
you think is the most creative aspect of a being a career
coach? It's funny, but I took my big business lesson away from
the time I spent pounding (my head against) the pavement, &
that was to figure out how I was different, own it, & make it
overly obvious. In all of my "business of acting" classes, I was
taught how to be like everyone else - what the "right" audition
outfit was and the "pretty" song to sing. It took me years, but
once I realized I needed to let everyone know how quirky I was
before I even walked in the room, I got a new headshot with a
bright blue background, an audition outfit that looked like a dress
made out of candy buttons (with a matching headband!), &
decided to lead with the funny/loud song instead of the "pretty"
one. It was amazing how many more auditions I would get, and how
the people in the room would lean in as soon as I walked in the
door and/or opened my mouth. I knew immediately that people "got"
me, and I got more callbacks & more gigs because of it. I
absolutely took that lesson directly into marketing myself as
an entrepreneur, along with the thought that if some people didn't
"get" me, those aren't the people that would be a good fit for me
to work with. I'm about 80 clients in & I've yet to be proven
wrong!
In terms of the creative aspect of being a career coach, I think
it also comes in on all sides. I have absolutely unlimited options
in what I put out there, and that's total creative freedom. I just
started using iMovie and recorded a theme song for When I Grow Up
that'll start every one of my videos from here on out (you can
check it out at the beginning of
this video). Yesterday I was drawn to, uh, draw my Vampire
(which is what I call the voices in our head that suck the good
stuff outta ya) even though I'm so not an artist, and I used it for
that week's
Tough (Question) Tuesday post. The possibilities are
endless!
There are a lot of new entrepreneurs in the world, many of
them women. You left your day job just this past spring, and have
been a fulltime entrepreneur now for 145 days! Your business is
booming and you seem entirely happy to be doing what you are doing.
What is your favourite part of being an entrepreneur? I
absolutely positively love not having to wear my "mask" for most of
the day. In my previous day jobs, I had to adhere to what that
company considered professional, and now I get to call those shots!
I love getting to make the ultimate decision on that front, and
that I can decide that, yes, putting "crapballs" in print is the
way I want to conduct business. I always make the decision that's
the most authentic for me, and I walk around all day now as
myself. I wish that concept wasn't as novel as it's
considered!
Speaking of booming business! How do you cope with the
stress or anxiety of being an entrepreneur? I'm still learning
that, Tania! I absolutely have learned the hard way that I have to
create boundaries and enforce them, especially in regards to my
self-care. It's so easy to get swept up in the mindset of having to
work 15 hours each day and/or power through when you're
tired/stressed/overwhelmed, but it's absolutely imperative to take
those breaks and say "no" when needed. I realized a week or so ago
that I couldn't take on any new clients until after Labor Day, and
it totally scared me to have to tell the next person who said,
"Let's get started!" that we couldn't for another 4-5 weeks. When
the time came and I upheld the boundaries, I was shocked at the
reaction, which was, "OK!" I think that absolutely taught me that a
lot of the things I'm scared of are way more scary in my head than
in reality!
And finally, what I really want to know: What do you do to
get out of your head and into your hands? What do you when you have
an idea and want to make it a reality? Two big, important
words: Baby steps. They are so underrated, yet get you exactly
where you need to go and do so really, really well. As a
Renaissance Soul, I work best in 45-min chunks, and if there's
something new I want to work on, I schedule it into my calendar
daily or a few times a week or weekly - whatever I have the
capacity for. When I wrote my free downloadable ebook (which you
can get if you
subscribe to my newsletter), I wrote all 20+ pages in 3 or 4
45-min time slots. It blew my mind. But if I know there's too much
on my plate & I can't take the idea on right away, it goes in
the back of my monthly planner, where I revisit it when the next
month starts. Some ideas get worked on then, some stay in the
monthly planner, and some go into my Michelle's Brilliant Ideas
book, where I know they'll be safe until I need 'em.
Thanks Michelle! It was a blast interviewing you!
OK, folks, get out there make something happen!